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Today, we want to say something simple.

If you’re struggling right now, you’re not a burden. You’re not too much. You don’t have to have the right words to reach out, and you don’t have to wait until things feel unbearable to ask for help.

Sometimes staying alive looks like getting through one hour. Then the next one. That’s enough. That’s not weakness, that’s survival, and survival counts.

If you’re the one who’s okay right now, this day is for you too. Someone in your life may be carrying more than they’re showing you. You don’t need perfect words. You just need to show up. A simple “I’m here” can mean more than you know.

We don’t always see the weight someone is carrying. But we can choose to be the kind of people others feel safe being honest with.

Today, send one message to someone you haven’t checked on in a while. No big speech needed. Just “hey, thinking of you” can be the start of something that matters. Let’s make checking in a habit, not just a moment.

If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7. Call or text 988. You are not alone in this.

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I grew up in Southern California, the middle child in my family. People don’t always think birth order matters, but I do. Being the middle child taught me to read a room early. I learned to mediate, to notice what wasn’t being said, to hold space between people. Looking back, it makes sense that I ended up doing this work.

I didn’t start out here, though. When I went to college, I was set on becoming a lawyer. I had the whole plan mapped out.

Then I took debate class.

I hated it. Not the arguing itself, but the performance of it, the need to win instead of understand. It didn’t fit who I was.

Around the same time, I took a psychology class almost on a whim. And something clicked. I wasn’t interested in winning an argument anymore. I was interested in why people think the way they think, why they carry what they carry, why the quiet ones are sometimes holding the most.

That was it. From that moment on, I knew I wanted to be a therapist.

I traded the courtroom for the therapy room, and I never looked back. Being a middle child taught me how to listen. Psychology taught me why it mattered. And somewhere between SoCal sunshine and a class I almost dropped, I found the work I was meant to do.

Being a middle child taught me how to listen. Psychology taught me why it mattered. And somewhere between SoCal sunshine and a class I almost dropped, I found the work I was meant to do.

What almost derailed you turned out to be exactly what you needed? I’d love to hear your story. Drop it in the comments.

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It’s Friday. You’ve got plans, or maybe you don’t, and either way that’s okay.

But before the weekend gets going, I want you to do one thing. Think of someone. Not the friend who always posts and always replies right away. Think of the quiet one. The one who’s been a little distant lately. The one who says “I’m fine” a little too fast.

Share this post with them. Not to call them out, just to let them know you’re thinking of them.

Checking in doesn’t have to be a big conversation. Sometimes it’s just, “Hey, no reason, just wanted to say I’m glad you exist.”

That one message could be the reminder someone needed that they’re not invisible.

This is Check In Friday. Every week, we pause for thirty seconds and reach out to someone who might need it. Not because something is wrong. Just because everyone deserves to be checked on.

Share this with someone who crossed your mind. Then actually send them a message too.

If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is here 24/7. Call or text 988.

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Suicide prevention isn’t just about crisis hotlines and warning signs. It’s about the small stuff. The text that says

“thinking of you.”

The friend you check on twice, not once.

The willingness to sit with someone in silence instead of trying to fix them.

You don’t need to be a therapist to save a life. You just need to stay curious about the people around you instead of assuming they’re fine.

This week is about more than awareness. It’s about action. Reach out to someone today. Not because they seem like they need it. Because everyone deserves to know someone noticed them.

If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7. Call or text 988.

National Suicide Prevention Week (Sept 8-14)

World Suicide Prevention Day (Sept 10)

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I was born and raised right here in California. Same childhood home my whole life. Never moved. And honestly I would not have it any other way.

If there is one thing you need to know about me it is this. I have always loved school. Like genuinely loved it. I started at five years old and I did not stop until I walked across that stage at my masters graduation at 25. Twenty years of school and I loved almost every single minute of it.

My first job was at Trader Joe’s in high school. Proud alumni right here. 🛒 I worked there for three years and honestly it taught me more about people than I ever expected.

From there I transitioned into working at my alma mater, Vanguard University, where I did both my undergrad and my masters. I started in the bookstore and eventually made my way into graduate admissions. And that is where something really clicked for me.

I found that I loved sitting across from someone, hearing their story, understanding their dreams, and helping them figure out the path that was going to get them there. Connecting people to their purpose lit me up in a way I had not felt before.

That feeling pointed me straight toward therapy.

My first step into this world was as a trainee at a nonprofit faith based organization working in a TK through eighth grade school. For a year and a half I worked with kids every single day and I fell completely in love with that work. It still holds such a special place in my heart.

After I graduated I moved into private practice. And now I get to do what I love every single day. I work with kids, teens, young adults, adults, and families. Every single age and every single story matters to me deeply.

And on the side? I did dog sitting for seven or eight years because animals are everything. 🐾 And right now I am getting certified as a yoga instructor because why not add one more beautiful thing to this journey.

This is my story. And I am so glad you are here to be a part of the next chapter.

Tell me something about you in the comments. I would genuinely love to know who is on the other side of this screen.

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Your child has been home from school for less than an hour and you can already tell something is off.

They are quieter than usual. Or louder. More irritable. More clingy. Maybe they burst into tears over something small and you are standing there wondering what in the world just happened.

Here is what we want you to know. That is not bad behavior. That is a child whose nervous system has been working overtime all day long. Holding it together in a new classroom. Navigating friendships. Following rules. Managing big feelings in a place where they do not always feel safe enough to let them out.

And then they walk through your door.

And they fall apart.

Because you are their safe place. The tears and the tantrums and the emotional explosions that happen at home after school are actually a sign that your child trusts you completely. They saved all of their hardest feelings for the one person they know will not leave.

That is not a problem. That is attachment. And it is a beautiful thing even when it does not feel that way in the moment.

So the next time your child walks through that door and immediately loses it we want you to try something. Instead of reacting to the behavior get curious about the feeling underneath it. Get down to their level, take a breath, and ask “it looks like you are having a hard time, can you tell me about your day?”

You do not have to fix it. You just have to be there. And being there is everything.

Save this for the next hard after school moment and share it with a parent who needs to hear this today.

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Last week, a parent shared something that stuck with me. “My daughter cried the night before school started. She said her stomach hurt, that she didn’t want to go, that everyone would already have friends without her.”

Sound familiar?

Back to school season isn’t just about new backpacks and sharpened pencils. It’s also new classrooms, new faces, new expectations, and for a lot of kids, a whole lot of “what if.”

What if I don’t know anyone?
What if I get the answer wrong?
What if lunch is scary?

These worries are real, even when they seem small from the outside. And here’s the good news. Anxiety isn’t something to fix or erase. It’s something to understand, name, and move through together.

In therapy, we don’t just talk about the anxiety. We help kids build the tools to recognize it, sit with it, and know they’re capable of handling hard feelings. We help parents learn how to support without overprotecting. And slowly, that tight chest and racing mind start to loosen.

So if your child is walking into this school year with some nerves (or if you are, watching them do it), you’re not alone, and you don’t have to navigate it without support.

New year, new growth, new courage.

Reach out if you’d like to talk about how we can support your family this school year.

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I didn’t always know I wanted to be a therapist.

In college, I jumped from major to major. Undeclared, then debating engineering, then a science or two. Just hoping something would stick. Nothing ever felt quite right.

Then I graduated. And there I was, sitting in my almost empty apartment (I’d shipped all my furniture home with my parents, so it was just me, a blanket on the floor, and a lamp) trying to figure out my next move.

It was quiet. Not lonely, just quiet. The kind of quiet that makes you actually sit with your own thoughts.

I started thinking back to moments in college when people had affirmed me, and I noticed a pattern. It was never about a grade or an achievement. It was always something like “you’re such a good listener” or “that was such a good question.” I realized I’d always been genuinely curious about the lives other people lived. How they got to where they were. What shaped them.

And then, like a lightbulb, marriage and family therapy came to mind. I haven’t looked back since.

Growing up the youngest, I had my siblings’ roadmap to follow. I mostly just did what they did. But having immigrant parents also instilled this independent streak in me. For everything my siblings hadn’t already figured out, I had to research and navigate on my own. That mix of following a path and carving my own is probably why I ended up here.

These days, when I’m not in the therapy room, you’ll find me lifting or running (bonus points if it’s on a trail), or hosting a meal for people I love. I’m an introvert at heart, but I still crave connection. I just like creating it in smaller, more intentional ways.

That’s the thread that runs through all of it honestly: connection. Understanding people. Making space for someone to be heard.

That’s what I hope to offer you here.

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